When should a woman marry? -- Exclusive for women.

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When should a woman marry?

This question is like a million dollar question in today's trend.

I remember in 90's when people used to get married happily and me attending their weddings with joy.
Or maybe I was wrong. This question was too young for me to understand.
I would like to quote some thoughts that keep revolving in today’s generation when they attend weddings.

• "This boy has settled well in his life. So this girl's life is settled as well".
• "She is very pretty. That’s why he has accepted to marry her. He is not that good looking. Still she has accepted him for his money." 
• "I don’t think this couple can lead their life happily with his minimal salary".

In all the above thoughts, the main hero is money and the supporting actor is the guy earning the money.
And the comedian or the dummy actor is the girl getting married.

I only find the word LOVE in their marriage invitation. I hardly find any love after that. All that I can see is they keep blaming each other for the biggest mistake that they did in their life. And the reason to blame is either they do not have enough money or enough interest in loving each other.

Your life can be much better if your wedding does not comprise those thoughts.
Let me tell you how it can be.

• Did your dad let you suffer when you had fever or did he rush you to hospital?
• Did your mom let you study whatever you want to or did she force you to get married at 16 or force you to do just household chores?
• Did your parents believe in your capabilities or they asked you to sit at home and cook for them?

I know your answers already. You were never allowed to think at any place that you are woman and you ought to restrict your dreams to one particular thing.
What happened thereafter??

Some"thing" called society happened and some”thing” called marriage happened. So you had to compromise your dreams. You had to sacrifice your life.
Is it really coz of marriage? Or out of your laziness? Ask yourself. I want to rewind this "thing" called marriage before you did it.

Hey woman ask yourself these questions before your wedding. .

• You have accomplished the goal of your life and you are happy doing it. Not for anybody's sake. Need not be big or need not be small. You are happy doing it. That is all.
• You are earning well so that you need not depend on your husband to take care of you. Here I do not mean to say that husband would be bad. There might be a situation in your life where your dignity and your reason for existence are questioned by yourself. When you give a negative answer for that you should not be shattered.
• You are taking care of your parents, monetarily and morally. And you are sure that you can do that in future too. 
• You are bold enough to face situations. 
• You are matured enough to share your life with a guy and live a life of commitment thereafter.
• You really think you will love your guy for himself not for his money.

Hey if you’re ready for those questions.. Yes it’s definitely time for you to get married.... If not, wait for some time. Just give some time for yourself. Feel good about yourself. Only then you can feel good about your marriage.

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